A Question of Rights
Marriage Without Children?
By James E. Biechler
"In your column of August,
1993 you wrote that 'two people can marry mutually agreeing not to have
children.' If this is the position of ARCC your organization is really
part of the radical left fringe. This is directly opposed to Catholic teaching.
How can you justify this statement?"
--C. A. B., Albuquerque,
NM
You should be fair and quote
the statement accurately. The first part of the statement made it clear
that "the right to procreation may not be excluded." Here we are distinguishing
between the mutual exchange of the right to marital intercourse and the
mutual agreement by the parties that neither will choose to exercise that
right in such a way as to conceive a child. There are hundreds of completely
honorable and unselfish reasons why a couple might wish not to have children.
There are women whose very lives might be endangered by a pregnancy. Are
they to be forbidden to marry? It would not be immoral, nor would it invalidate
a marriage, for a couple mutually to agree never even to have sexual intercourse.
The right to such intercourse must be exchanged, i.e., at the time of the
marriage each party must understand and agree that, although we do not
now intend ever to have children, should one of us later change our mind
about it, the other could not refuse.
As long as you have raised
the contraception question, you may be interested in the story of an Ohio
couple who were excited by the birth of an 8-pound, 5-ounce baby boy, born
to them after the woman had a tubal ligation, and after the father had
a vasectomy. The report, which I read in The Milwaukee Journal, October
13, 1993, p. A2, stated that the father had a vasectomy after the difficult
premature birth of their third child but the couple had another child the
next year. The wife's tubal ligation followed that but she nevertheless
conceived again. The experience of this couple (and I imagine similar experiences
are on record) suggests that neither tubal ligation nor vasectomy can with
certainty be judged "sterilization" which is defined as the act by which
an animal is deprived of the power of reproducing. Hysterectomy and castration
would be sterilization, but vasectomy and tubal ligation, as this story
indicates, do not inevitably render a person sterile. In Humanae Vitae
Pope Paul VI taught that "each and every marriage act must remain open
to the transmission of life." It is obvious from the experience of the
Ohio couple, that while vasectomy and tubal ligation may make the transmission
of life more difficult neither procedure, nor even both together, necessarily
renders a marriage act closed to the transmission of life.
In its position on family
planning and birth control, the Association for the Rights of Catholics
in the Church is not really on "the radical left fringe." If it is, well
over half the Catholic couples in America are there. Alongside them are
a sizeable number of respected Catholic moral theologians. They were preceded
there by a majority of the members of the papal commission which recommended
a change in the church's traditional approach to birth control. ARCC's
position is more middle-of-the-road than leftist. Perhaps we should deal
with the question of why people like you are so quick to question those
who are striving for the recognition of their rights as Catholics, rights
given by the gospel, by the Code of Canon Law, by the Second Vatican Council,
and by other official pronouncements of popes and bishops.
Dr. Biechler, an emeritus
professor of religion, is a member of ARCC's board of directors. He also
holds a licentiate in canon law and is a longtime member of the Canon Law
Society of America.
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